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FINISH STRONG – 8 Week Coaching Program

Monday, October 5th, 2009

How to Finish Strong in 2009

EIGHT WEEKS TO A BUSINESS BREAKTHROUGH!

What is this Program all about?

It’s about Mastering Your Mindset and Achieving Your Full Potential in Your Business NOW – not later

Stop the Frustration of Falling Short!

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Are you a Solo-preneur who know that you have a service that helps people?

Do you ever feel frustrated by your results?

If so I know that feeling.

For years I struggled with great potential and wanted to quit when things got tough. In fact I can think of lots of things that I DID quit -in tears.

(Like difficult college courses followed by several "opportunities" that I thought would solve my problems.)

I can also think of times I took action and failed miserably. (Like the time I lost 1/2 of my whole personal trading account in two days.)

The problem was, the more often I quit, or "failed," the worse my self-image became, and the harder it was to PLAY HARD AND WIN.

Finally I returned to the things that I knew for sure, and decided to apply them to my sorrowful situations!  Thankfully this turned things around for me.

"After working with Gina, I tripled my number

of listings, tripled my closings, added fifty

people to my sphere of influence and MORE

THAN TRIPLED MY INCOME! Considering the

state of the housing economy – this is astonishing."

-Karen Tibbals

Weichert Realtors – Joe Orr & Associates

Tullahoma, TN

I LEARNED HOW TO MOVE TO A PLACE OF FAITH AND SUCCESS INSTEAD OF DOUBT AND FRUSTRATION.

I LEARNED TO STEP OUT IN CONFIDENCE EVEN WHEN I HAD SOME FEARS.

I LEARNED HOW TO MAKE A LIVING WHILE MAKING A DIFFERENCE.

I LEARNED TO TAKE ACTION THAT WORKED – AND SO CAN YOU!

Today I often marvel at how much my life resembles the "dream life" I spelled out for myself when I was 20. I have a great family, great marriage, great health, and a wonderful business helping people blast through their mental limits to reach their dreams too.

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So, just what will you accomplish in this 8 week program?

——->  Create a POWERFUL PROMISE that Goes to Work Immediately Moving You Towards the Accomplishment of it

——>  Spell Out Your Vision so that you are Crystal Clear on Where You Are Going – in a way that inspires other people to help you get there

——-> Choose to LIVE YOUR PASSION, LOVE YOUR MARKET and LEAVE A LEGACY — to Completely Change the Way You Approach Your Business

——-> Finally Align Your Self- Image with Biblical Truth so that You Naturally Make a Bigger Difference and Reap a Bigger Reward ——->  Gracefully Honor You Internal Resistance and Get it to Work FOR You Instead of Against You. This is the Secret to Stopping Anxiety in Its Tracks

——->  Stop Trying to Master Your Time and Simply Accomplish the Most Powerful Activities More Quickly and Easily

——-> Create Internal Congruency To Stop Sabotaging Yourself and Harness the Amazing Power that is Already at Work in You ——-> Enjoy the Journey Right Now Instead of Waiting another Moment to Feel Refreshed and at Rest

——-> CHANGE YOUR MONEY STORY so that Your Eyes Are Opened to The Money- Making, Money- Growing, and Money- Flowing Opportunities That Have Been Around You This Whole Time (And more importantly to Prosper With Them)

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How We’ll Do It:

Every Four weeks you will take part in 3 group calls and 1 private coaching session with me.

You will take part in at least 6 group calls where I help you with the topics above, and you get to ask questions.

You will get (2) 30 minute sessions one- on- one with me to clarify your personal application of all we are covering. (This is at least a 500 dollar value- and will  probably not be offered at this price again.)

You will have assignments to complete to keep you focused and on track to BE THE CHANGE and REALIZE YOUR BREAKTHROUGH

Dates and Times:



October 20th -December 8th.

Tuesday afternoons 1 pm Central Time

(11am Pacific, 12 noon  Mountain, 2pm Eastern)

If you can’t make the calls live, you will get the replay link and I encourage all participants to listen to the calls several times anyway. (Still live participation is very special.)

If you have any questions about this program please email me. I read my own emails at Gina@BuiltToWinCoaching.com

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I am not creating a gimmicky close to this letter telling you that I’m slashing this course from a thousand dollars down to 500.

The fact is, this program is a bargain at $199 dollars, and I am very excited to share it with you!

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Again, if you have a specific question about this program, just email me and I’ll be happy to respond.

"With Gina’s help and support, I went out and made over eight thousand dollars in nine weeks, and I’m ready to do it again for even bigger results. It’s impossible to describe how much Gina has helped me to get over my fears and self-doubts. She also equipped me with resources and tools to build up my skills. I am now confidently doing things that I only dreamed of before. I recommend Gina’s coaching to anyone that feels hey are falling short of their potential. You won’t regret it!"

-Michael James

Arvin, Ca

Until then, you keep playing hard – AND ENJOY YOUR GAME!

I’m in your corner,

Gina  

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If you would like to quit spinning your wheels and finally experience true breakthrough in your life and business, than please visit: http://www.BuiltToWinCoaching.com for your free MINDSET MASTERY MINI-COURSE. Gina Parris is an internationally sought-after peak performance speaker, coach, and author. She is the founder of Built To Win Coaching, Where she equips athletes and entrepreneurs to skyrocket their authentic success through mindset mastery and strategic action. http://www.BuiltToWinCoaching.com Abundant Life – expressed in your livelihood

FINISH STRONG – Replay link

Thursday, October 1st, 2009

Well my friends,

Today we were reminded that my motto is to get moving instead

of waiting till you get it perfect! Here is the replay link to the

FINISH STRONG call.  There is still time to play hard and win!

Email me at Gina@builttowincoaching.com if you say “YES,

I want to join your 8 week program!”

You can either click play and listen to the replay right on this page

or you can download it from the download link. Either

Listen right here:

or download by pressing this player:

or if you can’t see that download link, use this one: (simply hit right click

and “save target as” to your desktop, or “save link as” same thing.)

http://sohappygina.audioacrobat.com/download/FINISHSTRONG.mp3

I’m looking forward to seeing you bust through those walls that

try to stand in your way! You were born for such a time as this.

Keep playing to Win!

In your corner,

Gina

You’re not Breaking Down – You’re Breaking Through! (Video)

Wednesday, August 12th, 2009

Have you ever felt as though you have hit a wall and you’re dreams are dashed? In reality everything you are feeling can change in a moment. You are not having a breakdown. You are on the verge of a breakTHROUGH!

It’s time to overcome the anxiety, and have fun as you stretch to achieve your goals.  This is the best time ever.

Be sure to stop by Built To Win Coaching to get your Free Mental Mastery Course to help you powerfully Achieve Your Goals.

Blast Through Self-Doubt and Build Self-Confidence in Three Steps

Thursday, August 6th, 2009

I believe self-doubt is one of the biggest thieves of
success.

Doubt is the state of being double minded.  It is the state
of holding two (or more) incompatible beliefs. Since every
thought carries it’s own energy – holding two incompatible
thoughts keeps you stuck in a place of frustration.

Self-doubt causes you to take your eyes off of the
wonderful contribution you can make to the world, and
instead focus on your own weaknesses and inability
to perform.  In the end, not only are you robbed, but
those who could benefit from your giftings are robbed
as well.

How can you blast through self-doubt and build your
self-confidence? Here  are some of my keys:

1.  Get in touch with your Higher Purpose.

When I was 12 years old, I made a decision that I would live
the rest of my life doing whatever God asked of me.  It doesn’t
sound like a big decision, but it took me most of my 6th grade
year to decide it. Since then, I have never looked back.

In that same time, I knew that I wanted to one day be a speaker
and do whatever I could to help many people reach their
God-given potential.  Was that my “calling?”  I believe so, but it
never came with any dramatic vision from Heaven or anything.
It was just the desire of my heart.

When doubts overtake me, (and they try) I take my eyes back off
of myself, and remember that God’s hand has always been
on me. I know who walks beside me, and he will not disappoint
those who come looking for relief.  My desire is not to become
famous. It is to see lives changed.

You probably have a higher calling as well. Stay connected with
that and you will have an easier time staying centered and
confident.

2.  Focus on a process

When we become anxious and full of self-doubt, it is often because
we are focusing on those things beyond our control.  We want
something so badly, and we are sure we don’t have it yet so we
strive for something outside of ourselves.

Life has no guarantees!

At some point, the winners in the game are those who trust the
moment. They trust that everything leading up to now is coming
together.  They know that they can’t control the past or the future,
but if they do the right thing in this moment, then the future will
take care of itself.

You have to trust your training, like when you first took a swimming
lesson and learned how to float on your back. You may have been
certain you would sink, but you discovered a process to trust.

Have a process that you know will get you the results you want and
then just trust the process as you act on it diligently.

3. Know that victory is already yours.

Though you cannot control the outcome of any specific event,
you can trust that the victory is already yours to enforce. This is
a different mindset than feeling like you have to go fight the fight
every day. Confidence comes from knowing who you are.
It comes from knowing that you are already a winner.

Do winners get knocked down here and there? Sure they do. The
important fact is that they get back up.

The battle is not yours to win. The victory is yours to enforce.
The more you know it, the better success you will have as you
train, and take action towards your goals.

If you are uncertain about your true identity, than I encourage
you to make sure you are listening to “Royalty Within”  This
meditation audio is designed to transform your reality by helping
you renew your mind.

You can learn more about that here:
http://www.builttowincoaching.com/products

Let me know what has been working for you as you plow past
your weaknesses and celebrate your strengths.

Until next time,

Keep playing to win – and enjoy your game!

I’m in your corner,

Gina

PS – grab your copy of Royalty Within right here. You can
either get just the mp3 or the mp3 plus a CD in the mail.
Either way, you will find it helps you very much.

http://www.builttowincoaching.com/products

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Gina Parris is an internationally sought-after
peak performance speaker, coach, and author.
She is the founder of Built To Win Coaching,
Where she equips athletes and entrepreneurs
to skyrocket their authentic success
through mindset mastery and strategic action.

http://www.BuiltToWinCoaching.com
Abundant Life – expressed in your livelihood

Overcoming Fear With Fun

Tuesday, July 7th, 2009

The best lesson in overcoming fear might be in turning it into fun – especially over a waterfall.

Yesterday I took my four kids cliff jumping at a nearby waterfall. As we made our way down the trail, I was muttering to my daughter about what kind of rednecks we’ve become that we now play in “swimmin’ holes.” That is, until we actually descended to the river. The beauty was breathtaking. I was suddenly all smiles, and the little guys were all squeals of delight.

The three younger ones immediately followed their sixteen year old brother across the top of the waterfall and up a steep embankment on the other side. When he pointed to the most conservative jump, about twenty feet up, they each with total trust, stepped right up and leapt fearlessly into the water. They looked like little dolls. Gasps of surprise came up from all the local teenagers that were standing around me. The next few hours were filled with higher and higher, jumps, and dives and flips, with and without a rope swing.

Not every jump was painless, but each held its own triumph.

Later, when we were all home, sitting around, I commented to the twins on how gutsy they were out there. Little Matthew responded with surprising words of wisdom,

“Uh, excuse me Mom, but I was terrified.”

“You’re kidding. You sure didn’t look like it!”

“Right. That’s because I quickly found out that sheer terror can turn into sheer delight when you
just go for it!”

“Just Go For It.”

How many times do we hold back in life because we are so afraid of all the things that can go wrong? (Yes, Mom, I’m aware of all those things.)

I talk to people every day who fail to live their dreams because they refuse to face the fear and just “go for it.” They miss the sheer delight that awaits them on the other side of the leap.

On the other hand, I also talk to people every day who are taking off the limits of what is possible. They are aware that every reward comes wrapped up in risk. Their love for life overcomes their fear of failure.

Today I encourage you to re-consider your latent dreams. If you can find a way to answer yes to the following questions than you will be empowered to jump, to escape the mundane and find the sheer joy. The questions are:

1. Can I do it?
2. Will it be worth it?

Can you do it? Of course you can. The fact that you want to means that you have the ability on some level! Find someone who is doing what you want to do, and model them.

Will it be worth it? Only you can answer that. You might want to ask yourself, if you keep doing what you are currently doing, in just one more year – how will you feel? If the answer is something along the lines of “Sick!” then you know it’s worth it to make a change. Leap!

A word of caution: The successful leap comes with an all out, full-hearted effort. The one who jumps half-way finds greatest potential for injury. So create some momentum for yourself.

Can you really turn fear into fun? Absolutely!

If you would like to have more fun in your life and business, than get my free mental mastery mini-course at BuiltToWinCoaching.com It comes with an audio and a 30 page action guide to get you moving fast!

Success Lessons from Stephen Strasburg – pitching phenom

Wednesday, May 6th, 2009

Stephen had great potential,  but he was fat, out of shape
and a mental mushball.

Still, his conditioning coach at San Diego State pushed him
hard. When Stephen told him “thanks,” the coach replied,
“I really think you should quit.”

Quit?

Have you ever been told you should quit?

Have you ever just wanted to?

The comment made the young baseball player mad. What made
him angrier was that his pitching coach told him that the whole
baseball community thought of him as a mental mess.

How did Stephen Strasburg respond in his anger?

He got tough.

He lost 30 pounds right away, got fit for the first time in
his life, and perfected his form.

NOW every Major League team wants him, with his unbelievable
pitching stats.

So how does a self-described “chubby kid with a poor mental game”
become a PHENOMENON in the space of a few seasons?  Are there
any lessons you can apply to your game?  Absolutely. Here are
a few:

1. Get determined
Whether you are motivated by pain or pleasure, figure it out and
make a decision that you will not let your weaknesses define you
any longer.
Regarding all the criticism he faced Stephen says,
“To this day it’s still kind of a sore spot with me,  but it’s fueled the
fire to get where I am.”

2. Make yourself accountable
When Stephen was in the weight room – the whole team had to suffer
if he couldn’t get through his workout. The gym would  get shut down
and out they all had to go to RUN.
(For mysterious reasons, baseball players hate running.)

The screaming teammates forced him to work harder.

How about you? Do you have anyone in your life who helps you stand
in the place of No Excuses?  It’s vital that you do.

3. Get Coaching
All peak performers have a team of coaches who help them get
past their weaknesses and strengthen their skills.

An excellent coach will help you identify your blind spots, perform
under pressure, and grow into your potential.

This is true not only in sports but in business and life as well.

Find a coach who can pull you higher, and become utterly
coachable.

I promise you are capable of more than you think, and today
is the perfect time to prove it to yourself.

If you have not read my ebook, “Flow On Demand, the Athlete’s
Edge” than I recommend you get it and check it out right now.
It will help you understand the mind/body connection that may
be sabotaging your game.
You can find that right here:
www.BuiltToWinCoaching.com/ sports-anxiety

Until next time, keep playing hard and
ENJOY YOUR GAME!!

I’m in your corner,

Gina

“Agony of Defeat?” He Had No Idea!

Friday, May 1st, 2009

This week I talked about the Agony of Defeat and the Thrill
of Victory (and how to turn the former into the latter.)

I referred to the weekly sports show The Wide World of
Sports, which was a U.S. staple for over 30 years, and how
we cringed each week to watch a certain snow-skier tumble
down the mountain during a race.

Thanks to Don Wheeler from Great Possibilities Advertising
for his great feedback.  Even if you are not from the USA, I
hope you will appreciate this lesson:

Don informed me that…

“The skier that was the “agony of defeat” was not from
the United States. He did not see that image over and over
again as we did. In fact, it was more that 20 years later
when he was back to for a visit that he saw it for the very first
time. During that interview when he was shown the footage, he
was amazed.

He had put it completely out of his mind, and not relived
again until that point.


Wouldn’t it be great if we could take a 20 year break before
replaying the footage of a failure. What a blessing!”

Yes, Don. It would be great!

He had no recollection of the fall!

Ha Ha!  I love that athlete for rising so thoroughly above the fall
that he didn’t even remember it, let alone know that he was our
poster boy for AGONY!

Please know that you too have a future and a present that is NOT
DEFINED BY PAST FAILURE.  You are  certainly not limited by
any other person’s opinion.  Their memories don’t have to be your
memories, because you can choose your focus.

Whatever mountain you are conquering today, is yours for the taking!

Put one foot in front of the other, or take the ski lift for that matter,
and enjoy the adrenaline that comes with playing hard.

There is a whole lot more victory waiting for you – both inside and
outside of Your Wide World of Sports.

Whether your game is athletic, financial or personal – I believe you
are in it to win it – to enjoy the Thrill of Victory.

Now, go play!  I want to hear about it.

I’m in your corner,


P.S.
I have put more slots on my calendar for Life Changing Strategy
sessions.  If you want to spend 50 minutes with me focusing
your goals and uncovering your obstacles to success, than
please go for it!  These sessions are some of my favorite events
and I offer them for a discounted price from my coaching fees.
You can learn more about that here:
www.builttowincoaching.com/promo.html